Bengaluru, First Published Apr 3, 2019, 11:02 PM IST
ಕಾನ್ಬೆರಾ(ಏ. 03] : ಆಸ್ಟ್ರೇಲಿಯಾ ಮಹಿಳೆಯೊಬ್ಬಳು ತಾನು ವಿಚ್ಛೇದನದ ನಂತರ ಒಂದು ವಾರದಲ್ಲಿ ಏಳು ಪುರುಷರೊಂದಿಗೆ ಮಲಗಿದ್ದು ನಿಜವಾದ ಸ್ವಾತಂತ್ರ್ಯ ಅನುಭವಿಸಿದೆ ಎಂದು ಸೋಶಿಯಲ್ ಮೀಡಿಯಾದಲ್ಲಿ ಬರೆದುಕೊಂಡಿದ್ದು ವೈರಲ್ ಆಗಿದೆ.
ಏಳು ವರ್ಷ ಗಂಡನೊಂದಿಗೆ ಸಂಸಾರ ನಡೆಸಿದ ನಾದಿಯಾ ಬೊಕಾಡಿ ಪತಿಯಿಂದ ಬೇರೆಯಾಗಿದ್ದರು. ನಾದಿಯಾ ಬೊಕಾಡಿ ದಾಪಂತ್ಯ ಜೀವನದಲ್ಲಿ ಸಾಕಷ್ಟು ನೊಂದಿದ್ದು, ಸೆಕ್ಸ್ ಗಾಗಿ ಪುರುಷರ ಜೊತೆ ಮಲಗುವ ಉದ್ದೇಶ ನನಗಿರಲಿಲ್ಲ. ಆದರೆ ಈ ವೇಳೆ ಸ್ವಾತಂತ್ರ್ಯದ ಅನುಭವವಾಯಿತು ಎಂದೂ ಹೇಳಿಕೊಂಡಿದ್ದಾಳೆ.
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ಈ ಬಗ್ಗೆ ಆಸ್ಟ್ರೇಲಿಯಾದ ಮಾಧ್ಯಮಗಳ ಜತೆಯೂ ಮಾತನಾಡಿರುವ ನಾದಿಯಾ, ನಾನು ಸೆಕ್ಸ್ ಗೆ ಅಡಿಕ್ಟ್ ಆಗಿದ್ಧೇನೆ ಎಂದು ಹೇಳಲು ಸಾಧ್ಯವಿಲ್ಲ. ಇದು ನನ್ನ ಮೇಲೆ ನಕಾರಾತ್ಮಕ ಪರಿಣಾಮವನ್ನು ಬೀರಲ್ಲ. ಈ ರೀತಿಯ ವಿಭಿನ್ನ ಸೆಕ್ಸ್ ಒಂದು ಕನಸು ಎಂದು ಸಮರ್ಥನೆ ಮಾಡಿಕೊಂಡಿದ್ದಾಳೆ.
"You SLUT!!" - These are just some of the many hundreds upon hundreds of comments I've had written about me in the past 24 hours. . Yesterday, The Sun published an article about me without my permission. They found a story I wrote THREE YEARS AGO and made it into 'news'. It wasn't news. It was a difficult and emotional story I wrote about learning to love myself again after coming out of my seven-year marriage, and how casual sex had helped me heal and learn to be okay with my body and my sexuality as a woman. I wrote it on my website for other women coming out of divorce trying to rediscover themselves. It's was, and remains to be, a piece I'm very proud of, that took serious guts and vulnerability to write. . After The Sun turned it into cheap news (how a woman having a bunch of casual sex is ever news, I don't understand) and then it was picked up by LadBible, Daily Mail, The Mirror, and many more. With each re-write, the story became more twisted and further from what I set out to communicate to other women struggling with their sexuality when I sat down to write it three years ago. . Still, that didn't stop the hate and slut-shaming comments flowing thick and fast. Besides being called every name under the sun, I've repeatedly been told I have a loose vagina and am riddled with STDs. . NEWSFLASH, people: Shockingly, as a grown-ass woman, I know how condoms work and women's vaginas are designed to push out entire human bodies, so a few dicks really ain't gonna do shit. How do people not understand how vaginas and safe sex work, in 2019??? . This storm in a teacup just reminds me why I do what I do. Because we all know if a man sat down to write the story I did at the end of his marriage, it wouldn't be news. At best, it'd be a story told to mates at the pub, and almost certainly received with applause. I do the work I do because I'm tired of women who dare to own their sexuality being treated like we are somehow tainted, broken, or unworthy. And I won't stop till that changes.
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Last Updated Apr 3, 2019, 11:07 PM IST
