Bangalore, First Published May 25, 2019, 11:01 AM IST
ಮಗುವಿಗೆ ಜನ್ಮ ನೀಡುವುದು ಎಲ್ಲರ ಬದುಕಿನಲ್ಲೂ ಮರೆಯಲಾಗದ ಅನುಭವ. ಪ್ರಸವ ವೇದನೆ ಮುಂದೆ ಸರಿಸಮನಾಗಿ ಮತ್ತೊಂದು ನೋವು ನಿಲ್ಲದು. ಆದರೆ, ಹಿಂದಿ ಟಿವಿ ನಟಿ ಚಾವಿ ಮಿತ್ತಲ್‌ಗೆ ಈ ಡೆಲಿವರಿ ಅನುಭವ ಉಳಿದೆಲ್ಲ ತಾಯಂದಿರಂತೆ ಕೇವಲ ಹೆರಿಗೆ ನೋವಿಗೆ ಸೀಮಿತವಾಗಲಿಲ್ಲ. ಬದಲಿಗೆ ಡೆಲಿವರಿ ಬಳಿಕ ಆಕೆಯ ಒಂದು ಕಿವಿ ಕಿವುಡಾಗಿದೆ.
𝗠𝘆 𝗕𝗲𝗮𝘂𝘁𝗶𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗛𝘆𝗽𝗻𝗼-𝗕𝗶𝗿𝘁𝗵: 𝗔 𝗹𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗯𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗹𝗲 CHAPTER 1: A DREAM COME TRUE It was mother’s day. The perfect setting to have a baby. I held the baby in till the baby gave me signs that it wanted to come out. I went into natural labour at 10pm when I was tucking in my little Areeza. I didn’t know at the time that it was going to be my last time alone with her for a long time. Instinctively she didn’t want to leave me and kept coming back after repeated goodnights and hugs. And instinctively I knew that my long delayed hospital stay was going to begin tonight. Sure enough, my mucous plug came off soon after Areeza slept, and I went to the hospital, all bags packed, on the doctor’s advice. At 1 am my membranes released (water broke) and by 6 am the next morning, I was already 7 cm dilated. No epidural. Just meditation, and an extremely loving and caring husband by my side. One of the most important things about Hypno-birthing is that the birthing experience is shared equally by the mother and father both. It was Mohit’s responsibility to allow the birth to progress naturally, controlling me in case I felt weak in my resolve for an all-natural birth, to light up my labour room with candles, incense, and fairy lights.. to play calming music, to do pain relief massages, to remind me to drink water and eat high energy foods, and to hold my hand when I went to the washroom (which was every 15 minutes I think, or at least it felt so) I even slept through some of the labour. It was so peaceful and relaxing. I would wake up every 2 minutes, breathe through a surge (contraction) and drift off again. My beautiful hypno-birth was progressing and a little baby was going to emerge out of my birth canal and straight on to my breast. But… ______________________________ CHAPTER-2 to follow soon... ______________________________ PC: @sachin113photographer #birthstory ______________________________ #chhavimittal #chhavimittalbirthstory #birth #arham #pain #anguish #beauty #pregnancy #mother #mom #newmom #newmother
A post shared by Chhavi Mittal (@chhavihussein) on May 22, 2019 at 10:02pm PDT
ಎರಡನೆಯ ಮಗು ಆರಮ್ ಹುಸೇನ್‌ 10 ತಿಂಗಳಾದರೂ ಗರ್ಭದಿಂದ ಹೊರ ಬರುವ ಹುಮ್ಮಸ್ಸು ತೋರದಿದ್ದರಿಂದ ಚಾವಿಗೆ ವೈದ್ಯರು ಆರ್ಟಿಫಿಶಿಯಲ್ ಆಗಿ ನೋವು ಭರಿಸಿದ್ದರು. ಅಷ್ಟೇ ಅಲ್ಲ, ಮಗುವಿಗೆ ಏನಾದರೂ ಸಮಸ್ಯೆ ಇದೆಯೇ ಎಂದು ನೋಡಲು ಸ್ಪೈನಲ್ ಟ್ಯಾಪ್ ಟೆಸ್ಟ್ ಮಾಡಿದ್ದರು. ಇದೀಗ ಈ ಟೆಸ್ಟ್‌ನ ಅಡ್ಡ ಪರಿಣಾಮವಾಗಿ ಚಾವಿ ಕಿವುಡುತನ ಎದುರಿಸುತ್ತಿದ್ದಾರೆ. ಈ ಬಗ್ಗೆ ಸೋಷ್ಯಲ್ ಮೀಡಿಯಾಗಳಲ್ಲಿ ಆಸ್ಪತ್ರೆಯ ಹಾಸಿಗೆ ಮೇಲಿಂದಲೇ ಬರೆದುಕೊಂಡಿರುವ ಚಾವಿ, ಡೆಲಿವರಿ ಬಳಿಕ ತನ್ನ ಕಾಲುಗಳು ಊದಿಕೊಂಡಿದ್ದು, ತಲೆ ಹೊಟ್ಟಿ ಹಾರುವ ಅನುಭವವಾಗುತ್ತಿದೆ. ಕಿವಿ ಕಿವುಡಾಗಿದೆ. ದಿನಕ್ಕೆ 5 ಲೀಟರ್ ನೀರು ಕುಡಿಯಲು ವೈದ್ಯರು ಹೇಳಿದ್ದು, ಒಮ್ಮೆ ಮೂತ್ರಕ್ಕೆ ಹೋಗಲು ಕನಿಷ್ಠ 15 ನಿಮಿಷಗಳು ಬೇಕಾಗುತ್ತಿವೆ ಎಂದು ತಿಳಿಸಿದ್ದಾರೆ.
𝗠𝘆 𝗕𝗲𝗮𝘂𝘁𝗶𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗛𝘆𝗽𝗻𝗼-𝗯𝗶𝗿𝘁𝗵: 𝗔 𝗹𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗕𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗹𝗲 𝐶𝐻𝐴𝑃𝑇𝐸𝑅 2: 𝑇𝐻𝐸 𝑃𝐴𝑁𝐼𝐶 𝐵𝐸𝐺𝐼𝑁𝑆 At 8 am my doctor came into my room and administered a drug intravenously. Within seconds I felt dizzy, I felt weak, my throat started to choke.. and I threw up. I panicked. She said this was just to hasten the dilation (I don’t know why we needed to hasten it though, but you gotta trust your doctor). Right that second, I was thrown out of my calming and peaceful zone. I couldn’t do the calm breaths anymore. I could see my dream birth slipping away from my hands. Another thing about hypno-birthing is that it has to be all natural. The minute you start administering drugs, it becomes medicalised. Sort of defeats the whole purpose. Which is why I had shared my typed birth plan with the entire hospital staff. The head of the hospital, the doctor, the nursing staff, the paediatrician, and everyone who was remotely involved. Some snippets: Mohit will be by my side every single minute. He will not leave even for paperwork (hence we made the entire payment weeks in advance). Allow us time. No rushing with labour. Delayed cord clamping after the birth. Allow the placenta to stop pulsating before cutting. (50% of the baby’s blood lies in the placenta and the baby needs it to breathe in the first few minutes of birth, and needs the blood to come back to its body. The damage that the early clamping of cord causes is way too great). Give the baby to the mother before any kind of testing. All tests to wait for 15 minutes. There were various other small things that were mentioned in the birth plan and we were assured that all our requests will be respected. After we got the assurance we needed, we were sure that our choice of doctor and caregivers was indeed right. We put our trust in them. Because there’s no greater trust than the one you put in the person who brings your unborn to this world. But was our decision right? Only time was to tell.. To be continued... ____________________________ #panic PC: @sachin113photographer ____________________________ #hypnobirthing #hypnosis #selfhypnosis #chhavimittalbirthstory #chhavimittal #pregnant
A post shared by Chhavi Mittal (@chhavihussein) on May 23, 2019 at 10:14pm PDT
ಇದೊಂದು ಬಹಳ ಅಪರೂಪದ ಪ್ರಕರಣವಾಗಿದ್ದು, ಕಿವುಡುತನ ಕೆಲ ದಿನಗಳ ಬಳಿಕ ಹೋಗುತ್ತದೆ ಎಂದು ವೈದ್ಯರು ನೀಡಿದ ಭರವಸೆಯನ್ನು ಚಾವಿ ಪುನರುಚ್ಚರಿಸುತ್ತಾರೆ. ಇಷ್ಟಾದರೂ ತಾನು ಎಕ್ಸ್‌ಕ್ಯೂಸ್ ಕೊಟ್ಟುಕೊಳ್ಳದೆ ಕೆಲಸ ಮಾಡಲು ಬಯಸುತ್ತೇನೆ. ಈ ಕಾಲ ಬದಲಾಗುತ್ತದೆ, ಮಕ್ಕಳಿಗೆ ಹಾರ್ಡ್ ವರ್ಕ್ ಮಾಡಲು ಪ್ರೇರಣೆಯಾಗುತ್ತೇನೆ ಎಂದು ಆಕೆ ಪಾಸಿಟಿವ್ ಚಿಂತನೆಗಳನ್ನು ಹರಿಬಿಟ್ಟಿದ್ದಾರೆ.
Last Updated May 25, 2019, 11:01 AM IST
